1. According to the Oxford Dictionary, ‘Women’s Rights are “rights that
promote a position of legal and social equality of women with men’. According to the
Webster’s dictionary.
‘Women’s rights claimed for women equal rights with those of men with respect
to suffrage {right to vote}, property etc.
2. According to the Oxford dictionary, ‘Modernising’ means “to make
modern, adapt to modern needs or habits. “Webster dictionary defines
‘Modernising’ as “to make modern, to give a new or modern character or
appearance’. For example, to modernise one’s ideas. Therefore, modernising is a
process of updating and opting for the betterment of the present status; modernising is
not the present status itself.
3. Can we modernise ourselves in time to master our problems and realise a new and
satisfying way of life for the whole human race?
I am not too concerned about the so called ‘modern’ ideas, conclusion, and
categorical statements of scientists and inexperienced arm-chair experts on how life
should be lived by women. I am more inclined to base my considerations and conclusions on
truths which can be proven in experience. Experience and unbiased holistic factual
analysis are the only sure test between the gold of truth and the glitter of theory.
Our thinking has to be checked against reality or our mental processes can lead us very
much astray. Indeed the best brains of the day in earlier days believed the world to be
flat.
4. If you agree with the picture portrayed by the Western media on the status and
rights of women in Islam, you have no option but to believe that women’s rights in
Islam are outdated.
All talk of women’s liberation in the West is actually a disguised form of
exploitation of her soul.
The Western society while claiming to improve the status of women has actually degraded
them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies, who are employed as
mere tools at the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketers hidden behind the colourful
screen of art and culture.
5. Islam’s radical revolutionary call gave women their due status and rights in
society in times of the “Days of Ignorance” more than 1,4000 years ago.
One of the objectives of Islam was and continues to be of modernising the thinking,
living, seeing, hearing and feelings of women and striving for women’s upliftment and
emancipation in society.
Six Important Points to be Noted
1. Muslims constitute about 5th of the population of the world. Different Muslim
societies have different cultures. Some of these cultures may be close to Islam while some
others may be far away from Islam.
2. Status of women in Islam should be judged according to authentic sources of the
teachings of Islam on the subject and not by observing what individual Muslim do or what
any Muslim society does.
3. The authentic sources are: A) The Qur’an which is the word of Almighty God. b)
Authentic Hadith or Sunah (tradition) of Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh).
4. The Qur’an will never contradict itself; nor would the authentic Hadiths
contradict among themselves nor would the authentic hadith contradict the Qur’an.
5. Scholars differ at time. This difference on many occasions can be removed by
analysing the Qur’an as a whole and not be deriving the meaning form one single
verse. In cases of ambiguity many a time the clarification is given in some other part of
the Qur’an. To support one idea the scholars quote a source and ignore other sources.
6. For a dedicated Muslim, be it a male or a female, the ultimate goal is to seek the
pleasure of Allah and to fulfil our duties on earth as his trustees and not a satisfy
one’s own ego or to gain fame.
Islam believes in equality between men and women. Equality does not mean identicality:
it means equity. Islam presents the roles of men and women as complimentary roles and not
contradictory or conflicting roles; the roles of partners with a common set of goals and
objectives and not roles that conflict with each other with each of them having the
objective of striving for supremacy.
We shall in this publication discuss the rights of women in Islam under
six major headings;
1. Spiritual
2. Economical
3. Social
4. Educational
5. Legal
6. Political.
I. Spiritual Rights: (Seven basic points)
The greatest misconception that Westerners have is that paradise in Islam is only for
men and not for women. This can be easily disproved from the Qur’an.
1. a. Surah Al-Nisa (Chapter 4) verse 124 (4:124)
“If any do deeds of righteousness be they male or female and have faith, they will
enter heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them”
b. Surah Al-Nahl (Chapter 16), verse 97 (16:97)
“Whosoever performs good deeds whether male or female and is a believer, we shall
surely make him live a good life and we will certainly reward them for the best of what
they did.”
2. a. The Qur’an makes it clear that both men and women have the same spiritual
nature; Surah Nisa (Chapter 4), verse 1 (4:1)
Oh Human kind! Reverence your Guardian-Lord who created you from a single person and
created of like nature his mate.”
b. In Surah Nahl (Chapter 16), verse 72 (16:72)
“And Allah has made for you mates (and companions) of your own nature. And made
for you out of them sons and daughters and grand children.
c. In Surah Araf (Chapter 67), verse 189 (7:189)
It is He who created you from a single person and made his mate of like nature, in
order that he might dwell with her (in love)
d. Surah Al-Shoura (Chapter 42) verse no.11 (42:11)
(He is) the creator of the heavens and the earth. He has made for you pairs from among
yourselves.”
3. When Allah created the human he breathed into him something of his spirit.
a. Surah Al-Hijr (chapter 15, verse 29 (15:29)
“When I have fashioned him (undue proportion) and breathed into him of my spirit,
fall ye down in obeisance unto him.”
b. Surah al-Sajdah (Chapter 32) verse 9 (32:9)
“But he fashioned him in due proportion and breathed into him something of his
spirit”.
In the above two references, breathing of Allah’s spirits into humans does not
refer to any sort of incarnation of God or any pantheistic form of concept of God but it
refers to the great bounty which Allah has endowed the human race with by giving innate
spiritual nature of knowledge about God and yearning for Him. Here the spirit is breathed
into both Adam and Eve.
4. Human race has been created to be or to serve as the trustee dignified the human
race consisting of both men and women.
a. Surah Al-Isra (Chapter 17) verse 70 (17:70)
“ We have honoured the children of Adam and conferred on them special
favour”.
Here Allah has honoured the children of Adam, both men and women.
5. The Qur’an does not blame Eve for tempting Adam to eat the forbidden fruit or
for the downfall of man, as has been done by the Bible and other scriptures.
In Surah Al-Aaraf (Chapter 7) verse 19-27 (7:19-27)
Here both Adam and eve are addressed together more than a dozen times and both Adam and
Eve are said to have disobeyed Allah and later, both repented and both were forgiven.
There is not a single passage in the Qur’an that only points to Eve. However there
is one verse in the Qur’an from Surah Taha chapter 20, verse 121 which specifically
puts the blame on Adam (Pbuh).
Christianity puts the complete blame on Eve for the fall of man and for the
‘original sin’. It holds Eve responsible for sin’. It holds Eve responsible
for sins of humanity.
According to the Bible in Genesis Chapter 3, Eve tempted Adam to have the forbidden
fruit (apple). Genesis Chapter 3, verse 16 states “unto the women he said, I will
greatly multiply your conception. In sorrow you shall bring forth children and your desire
shall be to your husband and he shall rule over you.”
6. Unlike the Bible, which degrades pregnancy and considers labour pains of the mother
during child birth as a punishment for eating the forbidden fruit, the Qur’an does
not degrade pregnancies. In fact the Qur’an states that child-birth further uplifts
the status of women.
a. Surah Luqman (Chapter 31) verse 14 (31:14)
“And we have enjoined on a human (to be good) to his parents; in travail upon
travail did their mother bear them, and in years twain was their weaning.”
b. Surah Al-Ahqaf (Chapter 46) verse 15 (46:15)
“We have enjoined on humans kindness to their parents. In pain did their mother
bear them and in pain did she give them birth.”
c. A Hadith mentions that if a mother dies during delivery of her baby she is
considered a martyr which in Islam is the highest degree of stature any person can
achieve.
7. The only criteria for judging a person in the sight of Allah is the “Tawa”
that is God-consciousness or righteousness.
a. Surah (Al-Hujurat Chapter 49) verse 13 (49:13)
O human kind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you
into Nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (Not that ye may despise each other).
Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (one who is) the most
righteous of you. And Allah has full knowledge and is well-acquainted (with all things).
Sex, race, colour or wealth do not make a person superior than the other. Righteousness
is the only criterion before Almighty God for judgement.
8. The spiritual and moral duties for men and women are essentially the same. In fact
there are certain concessions given to women. Pregnant ladies and menstruating women need
not fast during such days, but later compensate for the same.
The reward and punishment of Allah is in no way connected with the gender.
a. Surah Al-Imran (Chapter 3,) verse 195 (3:195)
“Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you be it male or female. Ye
are members, one of another.”
b. Surah Al-Ahzab (Chapter 33), verse (33:35)
“For Muslim men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for
men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for
men and women who give in charity, for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men
and women who engage much in Allah’s praise. For them has Allah prepared forgiveness
and great reward.
c. Surah Al-Nisa (Chapter 4,) verse 124 (4:124)
If any do deeds of righteousness be they male or female and have faith, they will enter
heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.
Economical Rights
1. More than 1,300 years before the west gave economical rights to women, Islam
recognised the rights of adult women. Any adult woman has the right to possess or to own
or to dispose any of her own property in any way she feels fit irrespective of whether she
is single or married. The first time that rights of married women was recognised in the
West whereby she could own and dispose of property without the control, approval or
consent of her husband was in 1870s in England under the “Married Women Property
Act”. This Act was later amended in 1882 and 1887.
Home Maker
2.a. Woman is considered as a Home maker in Islam and not a housewife because she is
not married to a house.
She can also work and is entitled to get equal pay if she does the same job as that of
a male. There is no text in the Qur’an or the Sunnah which makes it unlawful for
women to work or to do any lawful job or profession (provided it is within the modesty
level and within the purview of the Shariah). If she is married she should take the
permission of her husband.
b. She cannot take up jobs which are based on exhibiting her beauty and body such as
modelling, dancing, acting in films, etc.
c. Many jobs which are forbidden for women are also forbidden for men, for example
serving liquor, working in gambling dens, dealing in corruption and dishonest businesses,
etc.
d. A true Islamic Society should have some women as professionals such as women
physicians (doctors), women nurses, women teachers, etc.
e. Women have no financial obligations in Islam. It is the duty of the man in the
family to look after the financial aspects of the family. Therefore under normal
conditions a woman need not work and is not required to earn her livelihood or that of her
family. However in certain genuine cases due to financial crisis in the family where both
ends do not meet, she has the option to work with the permission of her husband Even in
such conditions no one can force her to work and if she takes up a job it is by exercising
her own free will.
f. As I mentioned earlier, the job should be within the limits of Islamic Shariah and
within modesty levels. Besides the professional jobs I mentioned, they can work in
industries and small scale factories which are so made that they exclusively employ ladies
or have separate sections for gents and ladies staff. She can also engage in business and
when required, enter into transactions with gents through a Mehram such as her husband,
son etc. The best example I can quote is that of Prophet Muhammad’s (Pbuh) wife, Bibi
Khadija (R) who was a very successful businesswoman. She transacted through her husband
Prophet Muhummad (Pbuh). Women can work in their own houses by taking up tailoring,
embroidery, pottery, basket-making, etc.
Women have no Financial Obligations
3. Islamic law gives more Financial Security to women than to men.
i. A Muslim woman has the option of not working to earn her livelihood. The
responsibility of maintaining her falls on the shoulders of her father or brother if she
is not married, and on her husband or son if she is married. It is also the duty of the
relatives and the state to look after her. She is entitled to full support if she opts not
to work. But at the same time she has the right to possess or to own or to dispose of any
of her own property in any way she feels fit, without seeking anyone’s consent
whatsoever and irrespective of whether she is single or married.
ii. During marriage, she is entitled to a marital gift (Meher) from the husband which
is entirely hers and she does not have to give this gift to her husband or father and she
can do anything lawful with it.
In Surah Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 34 (4:34)“Give the women (on marriage) the dower
as a free gift”.
This marital gift (Meher) symbolises, love, affection and commitment.
Women do not have to give any dowry to men and men do not have any right to ask or
demand dowry from women. The dower given by man to woman during marriage is known as Meher
and is a compulsory requirement, but these days Muslims give a small token amount of Meher
just for names’ sake, maybe Rs.200 to 500. Many Muslims have now-a-days adopted Hindu
culture in this issue, they expect or rather demand that the woman’s family should
get them a refrigerator, TV, Video, furniture, car, etc. The more educated and richer the
man, the higher dowry he expects.
In Islam it is just the opposite of what the Hindu Culture ordains in respect of dowry.
Islam requires that the man gives dower to the woman according to his economical
condition.
iii. If a woman earns any income from investments or works or engages in business
during her marital life, the income is entirely hers and she is not entitled to spend a
single penny on the household. She can spend it in any legitimate manner as she may
desire.
iv. Regardless of the wealth or income of his wife, the responsibility of maintaining
her lies on the husband even if he is poorer than her and this responsibility includes
providing for her needs pertaining to food, clothing, lodging, boarding, medication, etc.,
in short everything she needs. She need not spend anything. She has complete financial
security. The husband’s responsibility to fullfil her needs and not her unreasonable
demands and wants beyond his financial limits.
v. In case of divorce or widowhood there are certain financial guaranties for women
like complete and full support during the waiting period and thereafter; if she is
pregnant, then till childbirth. If she has any children she is entitled to child support.
Social Rights
Socially Islam gives women four different status:
1. As a Daughter
2. As a Wife
3. As a Mother
4. As a Sister
1. Daughter
i. Islam prohibits infanticide or killing of female infants. This is considered a
serious crime of murder.
Surah Al-Takvir Chapter 81, Verses 8 and 9 (81 : 8-9)
“When the female (infant), buried alive, is questioned, for what crime she was
killed.” (17:31), (6:15)
In pre-Islamic Arabia killing of female infants was very common and very often the
moment a female was born she was buried alive.
Islam not only prohibits female infanticide, but it forbids all types of infanticide,
irrespective of whether the infant is a male or female. It is mentioned in Surah Al-Anam
chapter 6, Verse 151 (6:151).
“Kill not your children on a plea of want. We provide sustenance for you and for
them. Come not near shameful deeds, whether open or secret. Take not life which Allah has
made sacred.”
A similar guidance is repeated in Surah Al-Isra Chapter 17, Verse 31 (17:31).
“Kill not your children for fear of want: We shall provide sustenance for them
as well as for you. Verily the killing of them is a great sin.”
In pre-Islamic Arabia killing of female infants was very common and very often, the
moment a female was born, she was buried alive. However, after the spread of Islam in
Arabia, Al hamdulillah, this evil practice has been discontinued for the last 1,400
years but unfortunately it is yet prevalent in India.
In a BBC documentary film titled “Let her die” shown in the programme
“Assignments”, the statistics of female infanticide was given by Emetic
Buchanan. It has to be a Britisher who came all the way from Britain to give us the
statistics and make a documentary film in a country which has the maximum rate of female
infanticide in the world. According to the statistics compiled by them, everyday more than
3,000 foetuses are being aborted in India on being identified that they are female. If you
multiply this figure with the number of days in a year (365 days) we understand that more
than one million female foetuses are aborted every year in India. It is practised maximum
in the state of Tamil Nadu and Rajasthan. There are big bill boards and advertisements
saying “Invest Rs.500/- and save Rs.500,000, signifying that you do tests like Amino
sentesis or ultra sonography which cost about Rs.500/- and on identifying the gender of
the foetus if it is a girl you can always abort her and thus save Rs.5,00,000/- which is
usually spent in the upbringing of a girl and giving dowry in her marriage.
According to a report of the Tamil Nadu Government Hospital, out of every 10 female
children born, 4 are put to death.
Female infanticide has been present in our country for centuries. No wonder the female
population of India is less than the male population.
According to the 1901 census of India, there were 972 females for every 1000 males.
According to the 1981 census, there were 934 females for every 1000 males in India and the
latest statistics of 1991 tell us that for every 1000 males there are 972 females in
India. One can realise from these census reports that the ratio of female population is
declining every year. Earlier only female infanticide was being resorted to, but now with
the advancement of Science and Medicines to suit this act, there has been added another
crime of aborting female fetuses. It is no wonder, therefore, that the urban areas of
Bihar and Goa showed 1054 and 1091 females respectively for every 1000 males and according
to 1991.tically fallen to 911.
ii. Islam not only prohibits female infanticide but also rebukes the thought of
rejoicing on the news of birth of a male child and not rejoicing on the news of the birth
of a female child.
Surah Al-Nahl (Chapter 16), Verses 58 and 59 (16:58-59)
“When news is brought to one of them of (the birth of) a female (child), his face
darkness, and he is filled with inward grief!
With shame does he hide himself from his people, because of the bad news he has had!
Shall he retain it on (sufferance) the choice they decide on?”
iii. In Islam the girl child is entitled to support, and upbringing and good treatment.
According to an authentic hadith related in Ahmed, Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) said,
“Anyone who brings up two daughters properly they will be very close to me on the day
of Judgment.”
According to another hadith whoever brings up two daughters properly and treats them
kindly and justly shall enter paradise.
iv. There should be no partiality in bringing up of sons and daughters.
Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) always spoke about justice and kindness towards a child whether
it be a daughter or a son. Once a person in the presence of Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) kissed
his son and put him on his lap and did not do the same for his daughter who was with him.
The Prophet (Pbuh) objected and told the man that he was being unjust and that he should
have also kissed his daughter and placed her on the other lap. The Prophet (Pbuh) not only
preached about equal justice to sons and daughters but also practised it himself.
2. Wife
i.a. Islam does not consider “Woman as an instrument of the devil” as
considered by the Bible. But rather the Qur’an calls her “Mohsana” - a
fortress against Satan, because a good woman by marrying a man helps him keep a straight
path in life.
b. Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) declared that there is no Monasticism in Islam. He further
ordained, “Oh you young men - whoever is able to marry should marry for this will
help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty” (Al-Bukhari). c. It is narrated
by Anas that the messenger of Allah (Pbuh) said, “when a man marries he has
completed one half of his religion!”
Once during a question and answer session somebody asked me does this imply that if I
marry twice I will complete my full religion? The Prophet (Pbuh) considered marriage for a
Muslim as half of his religion because it shields him from promiscuity, fornication,
homosexuality, etc, which add to half the evil in society.
Secondly, only after you marry do you have an opportunity to become a husband or wife,
a father or a mother and thus perform your duties as either as a husband or as a wife; as
a father or as a mother. Whether you marry once or twice you are yet fulfilling only half
your deen.
ii. a. According to Islam marriage is a blessing and bounty on both men and women.
In Surah Al-Rum Chapter 30, Verse 21 (30:21)
“And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves,
that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your
(hearts)”.
b. In Surah Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 21 (4:21)
The Qur’an refers to marriage as a “Misaq” that is a sacred
covenant or agreement between husband and wife.
iii. a. In Surah Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 19 (4: 19)
“Oh! You who believe, you are forbidden to inherit women against their will!”
b. Islamic law requires the consent of both the parties before marriage. In matters
related to marriage a woman cannot be forced by anyone including her father. Parents can
help and advise the daughter on marriage but cannot impose or force his will. There have
been cases where Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) had given the choice of continuing or
invalidating certain marriages where the consent of the daughter was not taken (Ibn Hambal
No.2469).
c. Ibn Abbas reported that a girl came to the messenger of God, Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh)
and she reported that her father had forced her to marry without her consent. The
Messenger of God gave her the choice (between accepting the marriage or invalidating it
_Ibn Hanbal No.2469).
In another version, the girl said : “Actually I accept this marriage but I
wanted to let women know that parents have no right (to force a husband on them)”
(Ibn-Maja, No.1873).
iv. Woman in Islam is considered to be a home-maker and not a housewife because she is
not married to the house. v. In Islam, when a woman is married to a man it is not that she
is married to a master so that she should be treated like a slave but she is married to
her equal and should be treated like a partner with love and dignity.
The Prophet (Pbuh) said the most perfect believers are those that are best in character
and behaviour and those that are best to their families (that is to their wives) (Ibn
Hambal No.7396).
vi. a. The rights of husband and wife are equal in all respects except in the aspect of
leadership in the family.
In Surah Al-Baqarah Surah 2, Verse 228 (2: 2228)
“And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what
is equitable but men have a degree of advantage over them.”
Here a degree higher does not mean in superiority but refers to responsibility. The
Qur’an has stated in Surah Al-Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 34 (4 :34).
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has given one more
(strength) than the other because they support them from their means.”
The Arabic word used is “Qawwam” which many a time is mistaken for
superiority but is actually derived from “Iqama” meaning to “stand
up for” in the same fashion as Iqama is given before prayers that is “standing
up for prayers.”
Therefore men are not one degree higher in superiority or dictatorship but one degree
higher in standing up for responsibility.
b. According to the commentary of Al Tabari the word ‘Qawwam’ means a
degree higher in responsibility and service and not superiority. Therefore it is the duty
of the man to see that he provides security and maintenance to women and this should be
carried out with mutual consent.
vii. Even if there is lack of affection or liking between husband and wife this is not
a justification to be unjust and not compassionate.
In Surah Al-Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 19 (4:19)
“Live with them (wives) on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike
to them it may be that ye dislike a thing Allah brings about through a great deal of
good.”
viii. There is a system of divorce in Islam which is to be applied only in extreme
cases where the problem between the husband and wife is too grave to be solved and the
continuation of married life would be counterproductive. The method of divorce is clearly
spelt out in the Qur’an in Surah -Al-Talaq in Chapter 65 and in Surah Al-Baqrah
Verses 227 to 242.
According to Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh), among the permissible things in Islam, the most
hated in the sight of Allah is divorce. It is as though the heavens shatter
(metaphorically).
There is a great deal of misconception and myth about the system of divorce in Islam,
not only among the non-Muslims but also amongst the Muslims, who think that men have the
exclusive right to give divorce.
Following are the ways of dissolution of marriage in Islam.
a. By the unilateral will of the husband.
b. By the unilateral will of the wife (if the marriage contract so specifies).
c. By the judgment of a Muslim judge (Kazi). After a reasonable complaint lodged by a wife
against her husband on grounds such as ill treatment, lack of support, etc., or any other
legitimate and satisfactory reason.
d. ‘Khula’ where even if the husband is not at fault and if the wife does
not like staying with the husband. She need not specify the reason for seeking a
‘Khula’. An incident of Khula had taken place during the time of Prophet (Pbuh)
where he commanded the husband to give divorce.
e. Many westerners have the misconception that Polygamy is compulsory in Islam and that
Islam ordains that all Muslim men should marry four wives.
The true fact is that monogamy is what is preferred in Islam. The Holy Qur’an is
the only religious book on the face of the earth which has the following phrase in its
directives to men, “marry only one”.
III. Mother
1. In Islam, obedience, respect and love for parents is next to the worship of Allah.
It is mentioned in several places in the Qur’an that one should to be kind to
one’s parents.
In Surah Al-Isra Chapter 17, Verse 23 and 24 (17 : 23-24)
“Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, And that ye be kind to
parents. When one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of
contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour (17 :23).
And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say : “My Lord!
bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood” (17 :24).
In Surah Al-Anam Chapter 6, Verse 151 (6:151)
“Be good to your parents” In Surah Al-Ankabut Chapter 29, Verse 8 (29 :8)
and in Surah Al-Luqman Chapter 31, Verse 14 (31 :14) and in
Al-Ahqaf Chapter 46, Verse 15 (46 :15) It is stated, “We have enjoined
on human beings kindness to their parents.”
In the last two quotations the mention of the word “mother” is specially
referred to after the word “parents”.
In Surah Al-Nisa Chapter 4, Verse 1 (4:1). It is stated, “Respect the Womb that
bore you.”
2. According to several authentic hadith including the one narrated in Ahmed and
Ibn-e-Majah, “Paradise lies at the feet of the mother”. It does not mean
literally, for example that if a mother walks on the road and steps on filth and dirt, it
becomes paradise. It means if you respect your mother, obey her, love her and take good
care of her, you will Insha Allah enter paradise.
3. According to another hadith narrated in Bukhari and Muslim by Abu Huraira, the
Prophet was once asked who amongst all the people was the most worthy of his respect and
compassion . The Prophet (Pbuh) replied “your mother”; the man wanted to know
who should be next, the Prophet (Pbuh) said “your mother”. The man enquired, who
next?, the Prophet (Pbuh) replied for the third time “your mother”, again the
man asked who next? The Prophet (Pbuh) replied “your father”. This means
that 75% of love and respect goes to the mother and 25% to the father; that the better
3/4th goes to the mother and the remaining 1/4th to the father; or to put it in another
way the gold medal goes to the mother and the father gets a consolation prize.
IV. Sister
1. In Surah Al-Tambah Chapter 9, Verse 71 (9:71)
“The believing men and believing women are protectors, one of other”. Here
the Arabic word used is “Auliya” which does not mean friend but supporters or
helpers or protectors; this means that all believing men and women are protectors of one
another like brothers and sisters unless otherwise stated.
The Prophet (Pbuh) said women are “shakaat” of men. Shakaat has two meanings,
sisters or halves. Therefore women are sisters of men or women are halves of men, that is
society is made of two halves, one half women and the other half men.
“I recommend you to be kind to your women”
Men and Women are overall equal.
Educational Rights
The first guidance given to the mankind in the Qur’an was “Iqra” i.e. to
read, recite or proclaim.
Surah Iqra and Surah Alaq Chapter 96, Verse 1-5.
“Read! Recite! Proclaim! in the name of thy Lord and cherisher who created -
created the human, out of a congealed clot of blood (a leach-like substance). Read and thy
Lord is Most Bountiful. He who taught (the use of) the Pen- taught man that which he knew
not (96 : 1-5).
The first instruction in the Qur’an was, not to pray or fast or to give Zakkat,
but to read. This instruction was to both male and female. Islam gives a great deal of
importance to education.
According to Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) “It is obligatory for every Muslim, male
or female, to acquire knowledge (Al-Bayhaqi).
The holy Prophet (Pbuh) made it a point of duty to every father and mother to make sure
that the daughters were not ignorant of the teachings of Islam.
A woman has her right to religious education from her husband so that either her
husband should teach her or allow her to go elsewhere to acquire it. If this matter is
taken before a judge, he must compel the husband to fulfil her demands in the same way
that he would in wordly matters.
According to Sahih Al-Bukhari, the women at the time of the Prophet (Pbuh) had become
so keen to acquire more knowledge that they came to the Prophet (Pbuh) with the following
proposal, “You are always surrounded by men for imparting knowledge so appoint a
day for us.” The Prophet (Pbuh) promised to do so and went to them and taught
them. He also sent representatives with messages to enlighten the Muslim women.
Women, who till only a few years before the advent of Islam, were looked down upon as
mere chattels unfit for education, became among the most learned figures of their time and
started offering guidance to others in educational matters.
Several Examples of Great Muslim Women Scholars can be given
1. Aisha Bent Abu Baks
a. The first and foremost example is that of Aisha, the wife of the Prophet, who lived
long after her husband’s death and provided great guidance to the first Muslim
Community, even to the renowned sahabah and the Khalifah Rashidun. Her pupil, Urwah Ibn
Azzubayr, testifies, “I did not see a greater scholar than Aishah in the learning of
the Qur’an, obligatory duties, lawful and unlawful matters, poetry and literature,
Arab history and genealogy.”
b. She had profound knowledge of medicine. Whenever foreign delegations came to the
Prophet (Pbuh) and discussed various remedies for illnesses, she used to remember them.
She was so wellversed in mathematics that important Sahabah used to consult her on the
problems concerning “mirath” (inheritance) and the calculation of shares.
c. Aisha even guided Sahabah who sought her advice on different matters. They included
the khalif “Umar” Abdullah Ibn Umar and Abu Hurairah. She was among the great
huffaz (memorisers) of Ahadith. She narrated 2210 Ahadith in all.
d. Abu Musa Al-Ash’ari, himself a famous jurist and learned scholar, says
“whenever we, companions of the Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh), encountered any difficulty
in the matter of any Hadith we referred it to Aishah and found that she had definite
knowledge about it.
e. 88 great scholars learnt from her and there were a large number of others. In short
she was the scholar of scholars.
2. Saffiyah, wife of the Prophet (Pbuh)
Saifyyah, the wife of the Prophet (Pbuh), was also very learned in Fiqh. Imam an Nawawi
says, “She was the most intellectual among learned women”.
3. Umm Salamah :Wife of the Prophet (Pbuh)
She too was a great scholar. The scholar, Ibn Hajar has given the names of at least 32
scholars who learnt Ahadith from her.
4. Faitmah Bint Qays:
Fatimah bint Qays was also a scholarly lady in the early days of Islam. Her learning
was so deep that she discussed a juristic point with Umar and Aishah for a long time and
they could not change or challenge her views. Imam an Nawwawi says, “She was one of
those who emigrated in the early days and possessed great intellect and excellence.”
5. Umm Salim : Mother of Anas:
Umma Salim, the mother of the famous Sahabi Anas, was herself a highly respected
Sahabiyah. Hafiz Ibn Hajar praises her, saying, “Her laudable qualities are too many
to mention and she was very famous. Imam an-Nawawi calls her “an excellent scholar
among the sahabiyah.”
The list of learned women of the early days of Islam shows that women were not kept
illiterate and ignorant, but rather were fully encouraged to participate in the process of
learning and scholarship. They also knew their rights and responsibilities very well.
There were instances to show that some women even challenged great scholars of their times
if they said something which was against the rights granted to women by the Qur’an
the Sunnah.
6. Sayyida Nafisa : Grand daughter of Hussein
She was a great scholar. A large number of pupils came to her from different places to
learn from her. Imam Shafii, founder of the Shafii school of Islamic law, was one of her
illustrious pupils. One of the illustrious pupils of A’ishah was Umrah bint Abdur
Rahman who was described by Ahmad Ibn Hambal in the following words.
“An eminent theologian and a great scholar. She was the most learned of all pupils
in the Ahadith of Aishah.”
7. Umm Ad-Darda : Wife of Abu’d -Darda:
Umm-ad-Darda, the wife of the famous Sahabi Abu-ad-Darda, was so learned in the science
of Hadith that Imam Al-Bukhari, one of the compilers of the Sihah as Sittah (the six
canonical collections of Hadith) referred to her as an authority in his Sahih al sukhar.
8. Aisha Bint Sa’d Ibn Abi Waqqar:
She was the daughter of a great Sahabi, Sa’d Ibn Abi Waqqar. She was very learned
in Islamic Sciences, to such an extent that Imam Malik, the famous jurist and scholar of
Hadith, was her pupil.
Legal Rights
Men and Women are treated equally in Islamic law.
1. The Shariah protects the life and safety of both men and women.
a.i. If any man murders a woman, the “Hadd” punishment of Qisas will be applied
to him and he will be put to death as a punishment for his crime. Likewise a woman
murderer will also be put to death. This law of equality is mentioned in Surah Baqarah
Chapter 2, Verses 178 and 179 (2:178 -179)
In the days of the Prophet (Pbuh) a Jew killed a girl by crushing her head. The messenger
of Allah ordered him to be killed in the same way. The second Khalifa of Islam, Hazrat
Umar (R), put to death a number of persons who were accomplices to the murder of a women.
ii. In the matter of Qisas there is no difference between a man and woman. In the matter
of injuries to a woman’s eyes, ears or any other kinds of wounds the Qisas operates
in the same way as in the case of man.
If a man kills a woman, he is to be killed. Similarly if a woman forgives the murderer of
her husband by accepting “Diyah” nobody is entitled to reject her decision. If
the guardians of the murdered person differ in accepting diyah and forgiving the murderer,
the other relatives are prevented from taking his life. It is immaterial if the person
forgiving happens to be a man or a woman.
b. In Surah Maidah Chapter 5, Verse 38 (5: 38)
"As to the thief, male or female, cut off his or her hand as punishment by way of
example from Allah for their crime."
In Islam the punishment for committing a robbery is the same for men and women: that is
cutting off the hands.
c. In Surah Noor Chapter 24, Verse 2 (24:2)
"The woman and man guilty of fornication, flog each of them with 100 stripes."
Once again the punishment for fornication is the same for both the man and woman guilty of
this heinous deed.
2.a. In Islamic law woman is accepted as a witness. This right was given to a woman 1,400
years back by Islam at a time when most of the societies rejected the evidence of a woman.
Even till as late as 1980s Jewish rabbi were debating whether to allow women as witnesses
or not.
b. In Surah Noor Chapter 24 Verse 4 (24:4)
"And those who launch a charge against chaste women and produce not four witnesses to
support the allegation, flog them with 80 stripes and reject their evidence ever after for
such men are wicked transgressors."
Islam takes utmost care as regards chastity and modesty. For a minor crime two witnesses
are sufficient. But if anyone accuses a woman as regards her chastity he should produce at
least four witnesses to support the allegation. In most of the societies we find men
abusing women in public and calling them obscene names such as prostitutes.
In Islamic law, if a person accuses a woman and cannot produce four witnesses or after he
produces four witnesses if any of them falters, all of them excluding the person who has
produced the false charge will receive 80 lashes each.
3. In the western society a woman adopts her husband’s surname after her marriage. In
Islam a woman after her marriage has an option of either adopting her husband’s
surname or continuing with her maiden surname and you can find several examples in Muslim
Countries where women continue with their maiden name and surnames.
Political Rights
1. Both men and women are allowed and should participate in public affairs in the interest
of society.
In Surah Al-Taubah Chapter 9 Verse 71 (9:71)
"The believing men and women are protectors of one another."
They are protectors and supporters to each other not only in social affairs but also in
public affairs.
2. In Surah Al-Mumtahinah Chapter 60 Verse 12 (60 :12)
Oh! Prophet (Pbuh) when believing women come to take the oath of fealty to thee..
The Arabic word is “Baiaan” which is not equivalent to modern election but is
much more than that.
The Prophet (Pbuh) was not only the messenger of Allah but also the head of state and the
women confirmed the allegiance to him which is equivalent to choosing him as the head of
state.
3. Women participated in law-making.
Once Hazrat Umar was discussing about regulation of Mehr in the Mosque. They were
considering putting restrictions on the Mehr as some people discouraged young Muslim men
from getting married. A lady from the back-seat of the Mosque objected, giving
Qur’anic reference. She said none has the right to introduce this. " When Allah
has not put restrictions on the Mehr then who are you to put restrictions to it."
Hazrat Umar humbly replied that the woman was right and Umar wrong. In Political
terminology, the women’s objection will be called objection to the breaking of the
law of the constitution as Qur’an is the constitution for the Muslims.
4. If the need arises, women may participate in the battle field: Muslim women took part
in battle fields. There is a whole chapter in Sahih Bukhari regarding participation of
women in battle field.
a. Many Muslim women helped in the battlefield by providing water and giving first aid to
the soldiers.
b. During the battle of Uhud, a lady by the name Nasiba was among the people who protected
the Prophet (Pbuh) and while doing so she received several wounds and injuries for which
the Prophet (Pbuh) appreciated and praised her.
Conclusion
A. As I mentioned earlier equality does not mean identicality. In Islam
Women are over all equal but not identical in each and every aspect.
I would like to conclude my talk by giving an example:
In an examination, two students "A" and "B" both obtain the first rank
by scoring 80 out of 100. The question paper contained 10 questions each carrying 10
marks.
In question No. 1 Student "A" obtained 9/10 and student “B” obtained
7/10.
Student "A" gets higher marks and is better off than student “B” in
question No.1.
In Question No.2 Student "A" scores 7/10 and student "B" scores 9/10.
Therefore in question 2 student "B" gets higher marks and is better off than
student "A".
In question 3 both "A" and "B" obtained 8/10 i.e. in Q.3. both are
equal.
When you add up the grand total of all the ten questions, both obtained 80/100. Therefore
both the students "A" and "B" are overall equal. In some questions
"A" has higher marks than "B" and in some questions "B" has
higher marks than "A", while in other questions both are equal.
To take the analogy to practical terms, Allah has made man physically stronger than woman.
Suppose a robber enters your house, will you talk about women’s right and say men and
women are identical and equal and hence tell your mother, wife, sister or daughter to go
and fight the thief? It is but natural that your answer is "no"! Concerning
physical strength, men are at an advantage as compared to women and it is their duty to
tackle such problems first. If required, in some circumstances, the womenfolk too can
help.
On the other hand, as I mentioned earlier, in Islam, a child gives three times more love
and respect to his mother as compared to what he gives his father. Here, when it comes to
children giving love and respect to their parents, women have more advantage as compared
to men.
In the same fashion men and women ln Islam are over all equal, but in some aspects men
have a degree of advantage (and the related responsibility) and in some aspects women have
a degree of advantage (and the related responsibility), while in other aspects both are
equal.
B. This, in brief high lights Women’s Rights in Islam as based on the Qur’an and
Sunnah.
However, in respect to these, whether Muslim societies in different parts of the world now
and in the past have behaved or misbehaved is a different story. Many Muslim societies did
not give woman the complete rights because of wrong interpretations of the Qur’an and
Sunnah.
Western Society has done so much harm to women that some Muslim societies have become
over-cautious, and deviated from the Qur’an and Sunnah by going to the other extreme;
yet others have blindly imitated, aped and followed the western society without analysing
the rights given to women in Islam.
If they had analysed and understood the Qur’an and the Sunnah they would have
realised that women’s rights are modern and not outdated.